Allow the Holy Spirit to broaden your perception. He asks us to consider an aquarium tank filled with beautiful tropical fish:
These fish represent the people you see in your own church or fellowship of saints. They are beautiful people with a great variety of colours, just like the tropical fish that you can picture in your mind’s eye. They have precious gifts and attributes; uniquely made; creatively decorated and equipped by God.
So choose to look again at what you see in your brothers and sisters in Christ. They may have different ways from you and may not always agree with you, but deep inside they have Christ in them, the hope of glory.
Psalm 133
Behold, how good and pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
It is like the precious oil upon the head, running down on the beard,
the beard of Aaron, running down on the edge of his garments.
It is like the dew of Hermon, descending upon the mountains of Zion;
for there the Lord commanded the blessing – Life forevermore.